If you grew up Lebanese, Syrian, Palestinian, or Jordanian outside the Levant, you already know the drill: you open a mainstream dating app, set your filters, and still end up matched with people who have never heard of your grandmother's village, don't understand why your mom asks "where's his family from" on the first date, or think "Arab" and "Middle Eastern" are one flat category instead of a hundred different regions, dialects, and family customs.